Lets get to know each other for starters

Hello and a big warm welcome to everyone reading this!

I decided to write a blog because i wanted to share and express my viewpoint to the world. Pretty much why I started writing in the first place. I would try and update every week on a random topic which i would love if you guys would suggest me and help me figure out more crap to write on.

Now most of you probably might be wondering why would you  actually bother to do that? Its a good question.  I think the answer is probably something that we do everyday…we TALK . We talk because the person in front of us is willing to listen and what we dont realize is that maybe somewhere all of us want to be listened to and that is where i come! I want to listen to you people.. maybe behind a screen through your keyboard but I do want to listen.

I shall write on topics that I believe all of us teenagers have to go through..ranging from time-pass relationships to work load ,stress relief ,exam studies true love,food habits ,weight loss and god knows whatever I can think of. Now please dont assume that i am some sort of degree holder and will give you awesome scientific methods to ease your worries. I am one of you and i have had my share of good and bad but I wanna be able to inspire you and make you smile even though I might be classified as an idiot ; am not that dumb!

Why do I write you ask? for the same reason as why you talk. You hope that someone listens to you someday and I hope that that someone reads me someday.

 

A WOMAN 

I am a woman. I know how to cook, clean , take care of babies. I will give birth to a baby. I am somebody’s baby.
I am a girl. I am proud of my body. I have an hourglass shape that i dont know how to handle and i am proud of it. I gain weight in one week in one extra naan and i am proud of it. I am a daughter.
I am also a medical student, a motivational speaker, a singer, a writer, a blogger, a friend. I know how to place my views and I will do it.
How ;just how ingraved does a society have to be with sexism..how deeply does a person have to be scarred to not realise the beauty of another person and lash out. Let me tell you..you are dumb. You are the reason why India’s literacy rate is horrible in Bihar.  You are the reason why girls can not wear shorts in 40 f*ing degrees. Lets get clearer.. let’s talk  about the movie Padmavati.  Its not like i am defending the actress or the actor or the movie..I am defending their hustle. They worked so hard to bring one goddamn meaningful movie this year probably the only with a story that should be seen by everyone and people are lashing out!! We have girls being raped everyday we have eve- teasing.. where does your bold voice..your right to expression go then?? Answer me? When was the last time you tried to save a girl’s honour? A girl  should not have a love affair but she should sleep with a stranger after marriage! Bull shit. I love my country .I love my culture but no..No culture has the right to suppress a soul cause i love my girls more. Bring out the L’s and shove them up at me. I am not backing down.
I am a woman.
I am proud.

Appearances


Deception;  delusions; masks and tricks.. appearances are the master of them all. What we look like gains such an important strata in our minds that we forget to see the person behind the 2000rs shirt. We look at a person’s clothing; then their hairstyle and then their skin and judge in the first 15seconds  what the person is like. When was the last time you waited for another day and see what they smiled like? How the corner of their eyes crease up when they are nervous…how they talk to you and react to your puns? more “Appearances”